The Bungee Cord 1-25-26
Hello,
I am sad.
Over the course of my years of being a pastor, I have sat with people who are weeping. Often times they have said to me, “I’m sorry, Pastor,” apologizing for their tears. Without exception, my response to them is, “No need to apologize. Sad things are sad.” No matter how tragic or trivial the situation may appear to be to me, when a person is weeping , the situation is obviously deeply felt by the weeper. Sad things are sad.
When I say that I am sad, I do not find myself at the verge of tears. Rather I find myself moved to sadness by the things that are swirling around me. It saddens me to hear people count others as “casualties” or “collateral damage” rather than human beings. It saddens me to hear people name others as “enemy” and divide the world into “us” and “them”. It saddens me that human made borders seem to also be borders of care. It saddens me that the pain incurring way of dealing with things, “an eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth”, seems to have morphed into an even more painful way of doing things, “two eyes for an eye, and I’ll punch your teeth out.” It saddens me to see kindness mocked at as being weak and naïve, and callousness applauded as a sign of strength. It saddens me to see people wielding shovels that dig holes of hate deeper and deeper, rather than to see those shovels being stored away in a shed because people have stopped digging. I am saddened when I look in the mirror and see that I, sadly, have a hand in the things that are going on around me that makes me sad.
What do I do with my sadness?
I have decided to share my sadness with you, the readers of the Bungee Cord. I do so not to create an online pity party where we might gather together to wallow in the state of things and wallow in our sadness. That does me, or you, any good.
Rather I share my sadness with you because I am tired of being sad, and I have come to know that fighting sadness alone is a losing battle
Sad things are sad, and I have come to see that there is a God who not only understands that but also feels it in the depths of God’s being. So deeply does God experience the sadness in what God sees rumbling through those who were created in the image of God, that God took upon himself, in his Son, Jesus, all the sad-creating things of this world on the cross and took them to the grave….forever. Like logs thrown into a roaring campfire, their future was to be powerless ashes, but out of their burning a great fire erupted…a great fire of hope…a great fire of alleluia’s and joy…a great fire that exploded out of the grave raising Jesus from the dead with power that erupted into the world with newness of life.
I share my sadness with you as a way of throwing all the tinder of my sadness into the blazing fire of Good Friday, inviting you to do the same, so that our combined sadness might fuel that fire into an ever more, all-consuming blazing fire of God’s Easter grace and mercy …. a fire with the power to transform all things into a new creation full of hope, peace, joy and love…where the lion lays down with the lamb, where spears are melted into pruning hooks, and where tears flow not from sadness but from joy because sad things will be no more.
Have a great week.
God’s grace and peace, (ggap)
Pastor Jerry Nuernberger